
For women who want meaningful connection.
Does life look good from the outside, but feel lonely inside?
Many women feel lonely and disconnected in their personal and professional relationships.

Many women feel lonely and disconnected in their personal and professional relationships.

It's a feeling that happens when you don’t have the social connection or sense of belonging you need in your everyday life.
Social connection is the meaningful relationships and the everyday closeness, recognition and support that help you feel supported and understood.
You can have people around you - partners, friends, colleagues, acquaintances, group chats, family - and still feel separate, disconnected or unsure where you fit. Loneliness coaching helps you understand why and what to do next.

Loneliness happens when your relationships aren’t giving you the closeness, understanding or mutual support you need to feel nourished.
The causes of loneliness among professional women include pressure to appear ‘good enough’, low mood or low self-worth, unsupportive friendships, loneliness in leadership roles, shrinking social circles, life stage changes and shifts in how we work and socialise.
Loneliness is a normal human feeling that signals an unmet need for connection. It’s your system telling you that something important is missing in your social world. It’s not a sign that you’ve failed or that you’re not good enough or not good with people. It’s also not something to feel ashamed about.

Loneliness can build gradually when your relationships aren’t giving you the depth, understanding or support you need. You might be surrounded by people but still feel separate, overlooked or unsure where you fit. Over time, this becomes a feeling of not having the connection or belonging you expected in your daily life.
Understanding loneliness in this way matters because it shows the issue is not you. It’s the gap between the social connection you need and the connection you currently have. These gaps can be closed and connection and belonging can be strengthened.
Women often describe loneliness as feeling disconnected in situations where they expected to feel understood, supported or to belong at work, in friendships and social circles. Here are some of the ways women talk about loneliness:
These experiences matter. They’re signs that your connection needs aren’t being met and that your social world isn’t giving you the closeness or support you need. As a loneliness coach, I help you to address these feelings.
If these feelings resonate, the Women’s Social Connection Quiz gives you a quick snapshot of how connected you are right now and where your needs may not be met.
It takes 4 minutes and the results will be sent to you by email. It's a helpful first step for women looking for loneliness coaching or friendship support.
Loneliness shifts when you understand your current level of connection, what you need from your relationships, what helps to create better connection and what gets in the way. These principles form the foundation of my three stage approach to helping women form more meaningful personal and professional relationships.
This is the foundation for your other relationships. Seeing yourself in a positive light, being true to your core beliefs and values and acting in accordance with them helps you create meaningful connections without losing sight of your true self. Get to know and like yourself.
Your emotional regulation directly impacts your relationships. When you can identify, understand and process what you’re feeling, you’re more able to express your needs, set boundaries and build productive connections.
The quality of your relationships matters more than the quantity. By assessing the meaningfulness of your current connections, you can identify unmet needs, reassess which relationships to invest in and create new relationships that feel genuine and supportive.
Loneliness is now highest among working-age adults and closely linked to low mood, low self-worth, anxiety, depression, lowered immune health and heart disease. Yet social connection is still often missing from wellbeing conversations.
Decades of research show that strong social connection is the single most important factor for a long, healthy and happy life.
The Harvard Study of Adult Development found that the quality of your relationships predicts wellbeing more strongly than income, status or lifestyle.
Data published by the journal Heart, shows that loneliness, social isolation or both are associated with a 29% increased risk of heart attack and 32% greater risk of stroke. The risk is similar to that of light smoking or obesity.

A focused loneliness coaching session to help you make sense of your loneliness and understand what will help you feel more connected and supported.
We’ll explore the areas of your life that shape your sense of connection — how you relate to yourself, what you need from the relationships around you and where those needs aren’t being met.
This helps you understand your experience more clearly and see what will make the biggest difference.
By the end of the session, you’ll have practical steps that feel achievable, along with a clearer sense of what you need to feel more supported, valued and connected in your relationships.
Book a session and start reducing loneliness now.

Group loneliness coaching gives you a space to understand your loneliness, strengthen your social connection and build relationships that feel meaningful and supportive.
In this programme, we explore what sits underneath loneliness - the beliefs, patterns and experiences that shape how you relate to yourself and others.
You’ll learn how to understand your needs, express them clearly and create connections that feel genuine rather than draining.
You’ll also gain the confidence and skills to build a social world where you feel seen, heard and valued, while connecting with other women who want the same.
Join the waitlist to be the first to hear when it opens.

This self-paced course helps you understand your loneliness and learn how to build the kind of social connection that feels right for you.
You’ll explore how you relate to yourself, what you need from your relationships and where those needs aren’t being met. This gives you clearer insight into your experience and what will support you as you start to change it.
The course also guides you through practical steps to build confidence, express your needs with more ease and create connection that feels genuine and sustainable. You’ll work through the material at your own pace, with space to reflect and apply what you’re learning to your everyday life.
Join the waitlist to hear when the course launches.
Professional women who want to:
My work focuses on the factors that make connection hard and belonging feel out of reach. Together, we look at:
Take the free Women's Social Connection Quiz for insights into what’s driving your loneliness and which areas of your social world need attention. You’ll receive personalised feedback to help you understand your needs and start building the connection and belonging you want.
I am grateful for this opportunity to have joined this group. It gave me a deeper insight and understanding of what authenticity really means and what the components of good relationships are. How to have good relationships, maintain and stop them when they are no longer aligned with our needs and authentic self.
MA, Coaching Client, Belgium
The group coaching programme was so valuable on many levels, and Esther was a really supportive, calming practitioner, she fostered an inclusive, respectful talking space. I learnt so much about authenticity, the different kinds of support needed in relationships, and how to identify my emotions and handle them with care, and how all of that feeds into our feelings of connection and belonging. I would definitely recommend this programme!
SF, London
Prior to working with Esther, I struggled with the perception others had of me, and lack of confidence in my decision making. After working through coaching sessions with Esther over a period of 6-12 months, I have gained insight and clarity on this in order to reflect and gain confidence to make decisions with certainty based on my own judgement and wants, without the need to appease others. Esther is a tentative listener, gently encouraging reflection, and challenged me in a safe environment, ultimately providing me with the knowledge and tools to support my growth, and I now feel more empowered as an individual, which is an invaluable feeling.
JJ, Coaching Client, London
Esther has delivered two sessions so far for us on mental health and wellbeing. The most recent session focussed on managing stress, covering the things that stress you and others, plus helpful and unhelpful ways of coping with stress. It was practical, accessible, enlightening and all the all the better for being delivered from a place of lived experience. We received excellent feedback from our deaf, disabled and/or neurodivergent trainees and will be using Esther again.
Dr Laurence Clark
TripleC | DANC (Disabled Artists’ Networking Community)
Esther’s delivery of a Mental Health First Aid Refresher course was both friendly and professional. She was very welcoming and ensured we all knew what the expectations were of us, from the beginning. Esther is clearly passionate about mental health and wellbeing and really knew her stuff! She has a very down-to-earth and calming manner about her and she ensured we all had the chance to interact and ask questions throughout the course. I really valued the group discussions we had and the opportunities to share experiences and receive sound advice from an expert in the field, like Esther. I came away from the course with renewed confidence and am really pleased I chose Esther to deliver the refresher course - thank you!
Laura Bennett, HR Advisor, Qualitas
I just completed my MHFA Refresher course with Esther and I'm so glad I did it. Esther is a great instructor; she's knowledgeable and inclusive, giving everyone the space to think and also the opportunity to talk. I thoroughly enjoyed it and took a lot away from it which I'll use in the future. Thank you again.
Katie Horswell, Jamie Oliver
Esther delivered a course with a difficult subject matter in a sensitive and engaging way. I am used to normally tuning out somewhat during training courses (especially remote) I attend for work but in this instance, I was fully engaged the whole time. Would absolutely recommend her as a trainer.
Dr Owain Kenway, University College London
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Loneliness coach for women who want stronger social connection, better friendships and a greater sense of belonging. Based in the UK, working online.
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